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Saturday, September 18, 2010

marriges are made in heaven... not realy!!

MARRIAGES ARE SET IN HEAVENS....but the evidences around me make me realize  that marriages are made on dis earth and spoiled by people around you, which make me believe this fact more staunchly that, this may b a myth...n people are just getting carried away by it....n spoiling there lives....in India marriages are made on dis earth, keeping in mind few things, they are as under:
marrige is btwn 2 persons who:
1.MUST belong 2 same religion.
2.MUST belong 2 same status.
3.MUST belong 2 same caste.
4.MUST belong to same financial hierarchy..so on and so forth
hence then marriages are materialized...its an irony how our elder generation do not value love but value such things which may change with d passage of time.
people around you do stuff that makes your marriage seem a very difficult task, sometimes u may get the feel that u really don't love the 1 u love and want 2 marry instead u get d feel that really marriage is just about 2 families doing business with each other rather than 2 people starting a new life, which should be more peaceful,happening and happy...hence my opinion for all those who want a peaceful n happy life is never think of marrying the 1 u love instead marry the 1 whom your parents chose fr u...but yes, if love is everything for you and you cant imagine your life without the 1 you love, then tighten your seat belts 2 enjoy the roller coaster of emotions,family dramas,tears,arguments,fights,anger,egos,showoffs,leg pulling,insults,humiliations....n like wise...of the family and the to be bride n groom.....coz that's the way it is in India...

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