email form chetan bhagat!!!

yes that was the mail i got on my yahoo id...i recently read 2 STATES and i have never read such a beautifully written novel ever in my life, it has everything 1 can ask for..n rite now i am waiting for the movie wch vl b based on dis novel...actually it all happened  yesterday i was getting bored wanted to talk n i remembered why not do something i have never done so i went to www.chetanbhagat.com and i posted on his guest book wat all i felt towards the novel plus i mailed him, i never expected he wud reply 2 my mails, but yes he dis for me chetan is like amitab bhachan as for whole of india..and rite now i am on cloud nine...i don't know how many people must have recieved his revert but i did so i am very happy...n i am waiting for his next novel wud love to grab it as soon it come in the market...love u chetan bhagat...love your writing..

marriges are made in heaven... not realy!!

MARRIAGES ARE SET IN HEAVENS....but the evidences around me make me realize  that marriages are made on dis earth and spoiled by people around you, which make me believe this fact more staunchly that, this may b a myth...n people are just getting carried away by it....n spoiling there lives....in India marriages are made on dis earth, keeping in mind few things, they are as under:
marrige is btwn 2 persons who:
1.MUST belong 2 same religion.
2.MUST belong 2 same status.
3.MUST belong 2 same caste.
4.MUST belong to same financial hierarchy..so on and so forth
hence then marriages are materialized...its an irony how our elder generation do not value love but value such things which may change with d passage of time.
people around you do stuff that makes your marriage seem a very difficult task, sometimes u may get the feel that u really don't love the 1 u love and want 2 marry instead u get d feel that really marriage is just about 2 families doing business with each other rather than 2 people starting a new life, which should be more peaceful,happening and happy...hence my opinion for all those who want a peaceful n happy life is never think of marrying the 1 u love instead marry the 1 whom your parents chose fr u...but yes, if love is everything for you and you cant imagine your life without the 1 you love, then tighten your seat belts 2 enjoy the roller coaster of emotions,family dramas,tears,arguments,fights,anger,egos,showoffs,leg pulling,insults,humiliations....n like wise...of the family and the to be bride n groom.....coz that's the way it is in India...

love vs life!! on a voyage of discoveries!!!

love is a feeling which makes u feel that you are on cloud 9, n life is what makes u realize that u r on this earth...m an unromantic person, extremely practical, focused. it seems to me that girls are more like me now a days...though i may b wrong but still i belong to this world so i may  represent at least 5% of d population. life includes love hence there can be an argument that love vs life is not a theory. but as per my opinion these both things are counterparts of 1 single element that is human...i have felt love in my life but i feel life is much stronger than love..though hate,arguments, disagreements are not much of a use or force when compared 2 d intensity of love....but still life, rules nothing can beat it. the force with which life changes n influences your actions is of immense intensity that u cant help but to accept it n flow with it....life is voyage of discoveries n its yet 2 be discovered....n m in d process of finding the secret(s) behind it....

burning!!

d burning of holy Quran on 9/11 wat dey wana show 2 d world..? that Americans being d most sophisticated r d same as osama n d othr terrorists, people call osama terrorists. i call every person terrorists, who terrorizes life of every othr person...n acc 2 me now Americans r in d category of so called terrorists....wat osama did as kwnn 2 us is an act of utmost insanity, n heartlessness ruthlessness 2 d people of America n now wat American govt is doing i.e allowing d people 2 burn the HOLY Quran is also d same act of insanity wch may leave a mark on d minds of muslims,young childrn of ny religion n our generation. a mark of the fact that fr hatred d reply is not love but hatred itself...i sometimes feel so sad that people call themselves religious,atheists,agnostics bt in dis whole precess dey foget that frst dey r humans. n every human has some resp fr evey othr human wat osama did i felt was all agant islam n quran. d question is y r dey burning holy quran.?? wen nthng said in quran is done by osama...? y people r so blind? y people cant give love wen dey get hatred here its nt a question of is buring of quran good or bad its a question of what v r teaching our young generation...?? y is dere so much hatred n violence....? v have come so far awy from d ancinet time whre it was jus wars wars n wars n now v have r so much educated v knw how 2 cominicate n talk, so y is der so much hatred....i realy feel sad d way thngs r takng shape. Wen i read quran, wen i undrtsnd it i neva have come through nythng wch made me feel ny hate for ny othr religion, person,country etc....i alyws felt while reading quran that love is the best religion 2 b followed so y is der so much misundrstndg regadring quran n wat it teaches  2 us muslims..whre v lacked allah?? plz guide us so that v may show people that islam n quran neva teaches bad or hatred, its is a religion of love pure, love fr allah,his prophit n evey person in dis world... i wud pray that dis day wud neva come in d histroy of the world when on dis earth quran is burned(khuda-na-khasta, god forbidden)...it wud make me feel ashamed that i m also a human...like othrs...

will miss ramdan!!

2day is d last day of ramadan n suddenly i have strted missing everythng about it, waking up at almost midnight, eating brkfast(sehri) den praying(namaz) n den sleeping till morning, aftr some zikr doing noon prayers, den preparing of aftari, den prayrs...so many prayers so much close 2 allah, so many good feelings inside, made  my eyes go wet when i asked dua from allah bfre breaking roza..though i never feel emotional i seldom cry, but i dont knw why everytime wen ramadans are gone i feel sad..n i knw i shudnt be coz eid is a day 2 celebrete d patence n self retarian v practise fr 1 whole month...still i miss ramadans my whole family comes so close during ramazns v talk v r 2ghtr most of the times...n now its time 2 cook food delicious dishes, i knw m going 2 gain wght in d coming days...:( coz i cant control on d yummy food served whrevea u go....everythng comes 2 an end even a day, so going of ramadan is not a sign 2 b sad bout but a sign 2 wait fr next yr wen ramazans come agan wid d same enthu, feelings n happiness inshallah....n ill surely enjoy dem as i did dis yr inshallah....wish u all a very happy eid may allah bless u all n guide us all 2 d right path inshallah d path wch leads 2 hapiness,peace,love,2gthrness,n everythg postive in dis world...:)

what i am!!

many a time i ask myself dis question wat i am. wthr i m a daughter, or a gf, or a sister...so on n so forth n everytime i strt forgetting myself...

is being a grl make ur life hell taht u cant thnk n do wat u feel n want u coz der vl hypocrtes around u hu'l neva suport u inded vl stop u frm doing wat u wish fr urself...

is dis life, doing thngs wch wud make othrs happy wid u...is dis freedon? even allah neva stops u from doing wat i want or wished fr urself n ur life....so y humans..?

sometimes i feel taht no matter how free n liberated indian women showcase demselves d truth is wid dem, n dey r well awre of how much freedom dey enjoy..n what dey wish had been in der lives...

i just wish someday, may b wid my daughter ill give her wings 2 fly, train her how 2 use d wings rightly n den let her fly.

dis article is fr all dose women from a women CEO's to even maids working n sporting der drunken husbands n families, v need change not in papers n speeches but real change, change of minds of thoughts, of souls...

let us fly high in d sky....v may reach d heavens someday..